Meet John Barry

MA, LMFT

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Experience & Education

BA - California State University, Sacramento

MA- Antioch University, Santa Barbara

Completed EFT Externship


Online Couples Therapy in California: Rebuilding Connection,
Wherever You Are

Do you and your partner find yourselves struggling in your relationship? Conflict is a natural part of any partnership, and while it can ultimately strengthen your bond, navigating it without the right tools can feel incredibly painful and overwhelming. But it doesn't have to be.

I'm John, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and I specialize in online couples therapy for partners throughout California. My goal is to help you and your loved one overcome your struggles by equipping you with the understanding and tools needed to navigate the complexities of your emotions, your relationship, and life itself. Through secure and convenient online sessions, I'll work with both of you to understand your shared experiences, helping you pinpoint and overcome the blocks that are preventing your happiness and fulfillment. We address common challenges such as communication breakdowns, infidelity, intimacy concerns, and persistent conflict, providing a path toward healthier connection and lasting resolution.

A significant part of improving fulfillment in a relationship involves understanding emotions. As John Seymour wisely noted, "Emotions make excellent servants, but tyrannical masters." If emotions within your relationship sometimes feel like a foreign language, leading to misunderstandings, hurt, or distance, I can help. Through our virtual couples counseling sessions, I'll guide you in exploring your individual and shared emotional landscapes and strengths to get to the heart of the matter, empowering you to find the best solutions together. We'll focus on developing healthier communication patterns, building empathy, fostering deeper emotional intimacy, and strengthening the bond that can withstand life's challenges. Whether you're seeking premarital counseling or looking to revitalize a long-term partnership, our work is tailored to your unique needs.

Is Online Couples Therapy with Me a Good Fit for You in California?

Having personally experienced therapy, I offer a balanced and practical approach tailored to the unique needs of couples. I believe that actual growth happens when you feel understood and supported, but also gently challenged to see new perspectives. I combine personal insights from my own family, marriage, and life experiences with modern research and evidence-based therapeutic skills to create new opportunities for growth in your relationship. This means you'll receive a compassionate and non-judgmental space to explore your challenges, along with practical strategies and tools you can start using right away. I'll meet you and your partner with genuine understanding, while also shining a light on the blind spots that may be hindering your connection and keeping you from the relationship you desire.

My flexible online format means you can access support from the comfort and privacy of your own home, eliminating the stress of commutes, overcoming geographical barriers, and making it easier to fit couples therapy into your busy lives. You no longer need to search for "marriage counseling near me" when expert support is available online across California. As we expand our services to more states, I'm committed to providing accessible and effective support for couples, regardless of where you are on your journey to a more fulfilling partnership.

Ready to transform your relationship? Contact me today for a complimentary 15-minute consultation to discuss your needs and see if online couples therapy is the right fit for you.

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Online therapy for California

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